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Question: Hello Doctor
While having sex i am ejaculating quickly.. Please let me know in improving my stamina there.
While having sex i am ejaculating quickly.. Please let me know in improving my stamina there.
Hi I understand your concern> there are certain techniques that we teach to our patients. I can teach you them in detail. For that I need a detailed summary of your problem in terms of time to ejaculated, method of intercourse and so on. I will be waiting for your reply,
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Hello Dr.Parth
I recently married 2 months back.
It is bit tough for me to explain in detail here, but possible best way I am keeping my problem in words here.
We are starting with decent enough time(40 to 45minutes) with foreplay and after that we are having intercourse in common sexual missionary possition. After starting intercourse ejaculation is happening in less than 3 minutes. Please help me here to increase my stamina here.
Also, my wife replying me that during intercourse she is not feeling that my penis is inserted into her
.
I recently married 2 months back.
It is bit tough for me to explain in detail here, but possible best way I am keeping my problem in words here.
We are starting with decent enough time(40 to 45minutes) with foreplay and after that we are having intercourse in common sexual missionary possition. After starting intercourse ejaculation is happening in less than 3 minutes. Please help me here to increase my stamina here.
Also, my wife replying me that during intercourse she is not feeling that my penis is inserted into her
.
Brief Answer:
do not worry stay calm and follow these methods
Detailed Answer:
Hi my friend,
I did review your concern.First of all I would ask you not to worry. There are 100s of couples facing this problem and eventually they do overcome it. Sexual act in initial 5-6 months for newly weds is especially a daunting task for 70-80% couples.here are some helpful tips>
Do good foreplay.you are doing right by doing that as it increases vaginal secretion and lubricates it.if still you feel vagina not lubricated use market based lubricants.
Increasing stamina tips- when you feel it is going to come out, start thinking of something else consciously,like your office routine, a horse galloping or a open field with flowers and then as you feel your desire is going away again focus on sex.i know its difficult but you can master with practice. Even 2 -3 deep breathes in and out may also help.
Another you can try is XXXXXXX method, where ask your wife to lightly press on ventral aspect of your penis with her 1 finger from.where urine/ semen comes out just before you feel its coming out
One or combination of these techniques can be used and witb practicw people master it.
About insertion feeling remember that only 2 inches of vagina has sensation. I would advice you to do sex in sufficient light initially and do not insert it forcefully but gently.also motion is important it has to be forward and backward with slightly downward angle and not completely horizontal or vertical.
Other tips- do not have sex immediately after food.do not force your way into sex,do it only when both of you are really hungry for it.
I hope this helps.please ask me any other aspect i did not answer and i will get back to you.I hope this works for you like for other couples and both of you have a healthy and a happy married life.God bless you both.
do not worry stay calm and follow these methods
Detailed Answer:
Hi my friend,
I did review your concern.First of all I would ask you not to worry. There are 100s of couples facing this problem and eventually they do overcome it. Sexual act in initial 5-6 months for newly weds is especially a daunting task for 70-80% couples.here are some helpful tips>
Do good foreplay.you are doing right by doing that as it increases vaginal secretion and lubricates it.if still you feel vagina not lubricated use market based lubricants.
Increasing stamina tips- when you feel it is going to come out, start thinking of something else consciously,like your office routine, a horse galloping or a open field with flowers and then as you feel your desire is going away again focus on sex.i know its difficult but you can master with practice. Even 2 -3 deep breathes in and out may also help.
Another you can try is XXXXXXX method, where ask your wife to lightly press on ventral aspect of your penis with her 1 finger from.where urine/ semen comes out just before you feel its coming out
One or combination of these techniques can be used and witb practicw people master it.
About insertion feeling remember that only 2 inches of vagina has sensation. I would advice you to do sex in sufficient light initially and do not insert it forcefully but gently.also motion is important it has to be forward and backward with slightly downward angle and not completely horizontal or vertical.
Other tips- do not have sex immediately after food.do not force your way into sex,do it only when both of you are really hungry for it.
I hope this helps.please ask me any other aspect i did not answer and i will get back to you.I hope this works for you like for other couples and both of you have a healthy and a happy married life.God bless you both.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Pradeep Vitta
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