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Question: Just FYI ,I am married since 6 years.And Aged 30. My Height is 175cm and weight is 85 kg's
Ok..So I would first like to clarify i am not facing from issue of Erectile Disfunction (ED) at all..Its also not that i have major issue of Premature Ejaculation (PME). Sometimes a gap of 10 days of sexual intercourse causes PME so you don't feel good for urself for the same and also am unable to enjoy sex longer which one likes to enjoy. Also I like to have a good foreplay time before final penetration so that too is a problem at times and cause PME. Can you answer the foll. questions point wise to get a better exact idea. My main concern is to have a longer sexual intercourse and foreplay and penetration time.
1) I have sex once a week mostly on weekend's or sometimes in between weekdays...Also I sometimes use Shunga massage products for foreplay and to enjoy sex.(Just for your knowledge)..Which Allopathy & Ayurvedic medicines should i use in particular for the same for increase sexual desire & avoid PME ( Also pls mention the Tablet name ) Also for how long should i take these tablets and only before Sex or initially for month or so and then before sex ?? If poss. I would also like to know the name of the tablet/capsule so that i can directly take the same from a Pharmacist shop in XXXXXXX without prescription.
I would like to have only medicines which doesn't have any serious side effects or no side effects at all !!
2) Is it fine if my wife licks my cock and if i lick her pussy sometimes ? One likes & wishes to enjoy that wildness too.. we have done that once or twice but are hesitant to repeat bcoz we fear it may cause infection or something like that. Have seen people in porn movies doing that so much !!
Also i am unable to have sex Women on top Style becoz i fear my penis will bend and hurt and also feel more anxiety in that style and result in PME !!
3) Does my wife too need to take any medicine for the same for enjoying longer sexual intercourse ? She too like me does not have any health problems..Her age is 30 and weighs 62 kg's and height is 165 cms.
Thanks.
Ok..So I would first like to clarify i am not facing from issue of Erectile Disfunction (ED) at all..Its also not that i have major issue of Premature Ejaculation (PME). Sometimes a gap of 10 days of sexual intercourse causes PME so you don't feel good for urself for the same and also am unable to enjoy sex longer which one likes to enjoy. Also I like to have a good foreplay time before final penetration so that too is a problem at times and cause PME. Can you answer the foll. questions point wise to get a better exact idea. My main concern is to have a longer sexual intercourse and foreplay and penetration time.
1) I have sex once a week mostly on weekend's or sometimes in between weekdays...Also I sometimes use Shunga massage products for foreplay and to enjoy sex.(Just for your knowledge)..Which Allopathy & Ayurvedic medicines should i use in particular for the same for increase sexual desire & avoid PME ( Also pls mention the Tablet name ) Also for how long should i take these tablets and only before Sex or initially for month or so and then before sex ?? If poss. I would also like to know the name of the tablet/capsule so that i can directly take the same from a Pharmacist shop in XXXXXXX without prescription.
I would like to have only medicines which doesn't have any serious side effects or no side effects at all !!
2) Is it fine if my wife licks my cock and if i lick her pussy sometimes ? One likes & wishes to enjoy that wildness too.. we have done that once or twice but are hesitant to repeat bcoz we fear it may cause infection or something like that. Have seen people in porn movies doing that so much !!
Also i am unable to have sex Women on top Style becoz i fear my penis will bend and hurt and also feel more anxiety in that style and result in PME !!
3) Does my wife too need to take any medicine for the same for enjoying longer sexual intercourse ? She too like me does not have any health problems..Her age is 30 and weighs 62 kg's and height is 165 cms.
Thanks.
Brief Answer:
Provide more information and consider these guidelines
Detailed Answer:
Hello
I had gone through your question very diligently and I will definitely help you in best possible way
First of all I would like to assure you that you need not to think about this because performance anxiety may lead to PME at your age
Here I would like more information to guide you better like
since how long you have this problem
Apart from sugna massage product, do you use any other medicines
Do you smoke or consume liquor
As far as medicines are concerned I would advise you to follow non drug measures first like
1. Foreplay for long hours
2. Make yourself comfortable at ease before the act
3. Turn on some soothing music
4. Take deep breaths
5. Ask your wife to hold behind the glans when you feel like to ejaculate
6. Avoid smoking and alcohol, adopt healthy way of living, exercise regularly
Confido is a ayurvedic medicine available for PME
1 tab after food to be taken twice daily for 2 to 3 months
Other medicines are not available over the counter like SSRIs like paroxetine, dapoxetine. Before taking this medicines you should consult your doctor as these medicines are not available without prescription.
As far as licking and oral sex is concerned, there are more chances of spreading of infection So either practise good hygiene or try to avoid it.
Your wife doesn't need to take any medicines particularly for this issue.
Don't afraid of wife on top position during sex, use some lubricant and try to be gentle.
You can ask your wife for slow and smooth strokes.
My sincere advise to you is please don't follow the port movies, whatever showing in movies may not happen in real life so forget about that and just enjoy your sexlife in healthy and hygienic way
Hope this answers your question Please feel free to ask follow up question if anything is not clear
Wish you good health
Provide more information and consider these guidelines
Detailed Answer:
Hello
I had gone through your question very diligently and I will definitely help you in best possible way
First of all I would like to assure you that you need not to think about this because performance anxiety may lead to PME at your age
Here I would like more information to guide you better like
since how long you have this problem
Apart from sugna massage product, do you use any other medicines
Do you smoke or consume liquor
As far as medicines are concerned I would advise you to follow non drug measures first like
1. Foreplay for long hours
2. Make yourself comfortable at ease before the act
3. Turn on some soothing music
4. Take deep breaths
5. Ask your wife to hold behind the glans when you feel like to ejaculate
6. Avoid smoking and alcohol, adopt healthy way of living, exercise regularly
Confido is a ayurvedic medicine available for PME
1 tab after food to be taken twice daily for 2 to 3 months
Other medicines are not available over the counter like SSRIs like paroxetine, dapoxetine. Before taking this medicines you should consult your doctor as these medicines are not available without prescription.
As far as licking and oral sex is concerned, there are more chances of spreading of infection So either practise good hygiene or try to avoid it.
Your wife doesn't need to take any medicines particularly for this issue.
Don't afraid of wife on top position during sex, use some lubricant and try to be gentle.
You can ask your wife for slow and smooth strokes.
My sincere advise to you is please don't follow the port movies, whatever showing in movies may not happen in real life so forget about that and just enjoy your sexlife in healthy and hygienic way
Hope this answers your question Please feel free to ask follow up question if anything is not clear
Wish you good health
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