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Question: I got married three months back, but haven't been able to have proper sex. My penis does get erect, but I am not able to insert properly. After I insert, it seems like the penis is going limp. I try to take it out and excite it again, and it gets hard again - but still not able to penetrate completely.
I used to masturbate regularly and used to get headaches after this before the wedding.
I am wondering what the problem is
I used to masturbate regularly and used to get headaches after this before the wedding.
I am wondering what the problem is
Brief Answer:
Your wife needs to get checked by Gynecologist
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for query .
Based on the facts that you are unable to have penetrative intra vaginal sex is most likely to be due to one of the following two factors
1) Inadequate vaginal lubrication
2) Narrowing of vagina (Vaginismus )
You need to get your wife examined by a qualified Gynecologist for clinical and vaginal examination to rule out the same. If needed she may need to get dilatation of vagina done to dilate the vagina under short general anesthesia.
Spending more time in foreplay and using lubricant like Xylocaine jelly may help to increase vaginal secretions and help to penetrate vagina.
Hope I have answered your query, please feel free to ask if you have more questions, I shall be happy to help you
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.
Your wife needs to get checked by Gynecologist
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for query .
Based on the facts that you are unable to have penetrative intra vaginal sex is most likely to be due to one of the following two factors
1) Inadequate vaginal lubrication
2) Narrowing of vagina (Vaginismus )
You need to get your wife examined by a qualified Gynecologist for clinical and vaginal examination to rule out the same. If needed she may need to get dilatation of vagina done to dilate the vagina under short general anesthesia.
Spending more time in foreplay and using lubricant like Xylocaine jelly may help to increase vaginal secretions and help to penetrate vagina.
Hope I have answered your query, please feel free to ask if you have more questions, I shall be happy to help you
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thanks for the reply, Sir. However, I feel that the problem is at my end. I always seem to need a 3-4 day gap to get excited for sex again after ejaculation.
I always used to have a feeling of guilt after masturbation which might have resulted in headaches that I used to get post masturbation.l
Also, after insertion, the penis always seem to slip out when I try to insert further.
Is there anything at my end that I can act on?
I always used to have a feeling of guilt after masturbation which might have resulted in headaches that I used to get post masturbation.l
Also, after insertion, the penis always seem to slip out when I try to insert further.
Is there anything at my end that I can act on?
Brief Answer:
Your problems seems to be Psychogenic in nature .
Detailed Answer:
hello
Thanks for follow up .
You seem to have facing problem of Premature Ejaculation rather that Erectile Dysfunction .
The cause of premature ejaculation is due to what is called as performance anxiety..
Following measure will help you to boost up your confidence and getting good erection.and delay ejaculation.
1) Practice regular exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation for 1/2 an hour in the morning.
2) Take high protein diet rich in vegetables and fruits and Vitamin A,C,D,E.and Zinc
3)Take anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday..
4) Avoid alcohol and smoking..
Taking Sildenafil (Viagra)as on demand will help to get good hard sustainable erection and to have enjoyable sex.
Get the prescription of medicines from your family Physician and guidance regarding doses and timing to be taken
Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions ,I shall be happy to help you
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.
Your problems seems to be Psychogenic in nature .
Detailed Answer:
hello
Thanks for follow up .
You seem to have facing problem of Premature Ejaculation rather that Erectile Dysfunction .
The cause of premature ejaculation is due to what is called as performance anxiety..
Following measure will help you to boost up your confidence and getting good erection.and delay ejaculation.
1) Practice regular exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation for 1/2 an hour in the morning.
2) Take high protein diet rich in vegetables and fruits and Vitamin A,C,D,E.and Zinc
3)Take anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday..
4) Avoid alcohol and smoking..
Taking Sildenafil (Viagra)as on demand will help to get good hard sustainable erection and to have enjoyable sex.
Get the prescription of medicines from your family Physician and guidance regarding doses and timing to be taken
Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions ,I shall be happy to help you
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.
Note: For further guidance on mental health, Click here.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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