Suggest Treatment For Symptoms Of Depression

Question: My daughter is now 47 years old. She had some problems as a young girl, as to decide what profession to choose, but after a while, she went much better, able to gain scholarships, tutoring, and keeping herself in school and out of troubles. Finally, she decided to follow art, but, despite gaining awards and participating in many exhibitions, she couldn't get a job in teaching at Colleges or Universities around her house. Due to her bad marriage with someone 22 years old, controlling, greedy, and putting her down, and cursing (emotional abuse mostly), my daughter status is deeply aggravated in the last 3-4 years; depressed, lack of self-esteem, trouble sleeping till 12, trying to make a living with slow work from pyramid business, excessive spending, tendency to hoarding. Has a psychiatrist who gives her Adderall and no other help or recommendation, Now her son (just got 14's) refused to go to school, under homeschooling idea, but worked for a while last year( finishing Math 7 and mostly 8 grade in 3 months,learning by himself and staying in my home). He had a sudden puberty, hates his father because he treats badly both of them and gives money at the limit of survival. He never played or bought something for him (after toddler age). As a grandmother, I don't know how to help.If you will put name Magi Calhoun on Google, you can arrive at her page from SaatachiArt. I am 77 old, no money to help her to separate from her husband, who never took care nor for the child. Where to get help? She is friendly, but staying in the house with a very low return in business is not a solution. Please, give me an advice how to help them. The child was seen only by NP , not by the doctor and she told that teens are sometimes strange. I insisted that my daughter to get an appointment with a pediatrician who knows about ADHD: my grandson didn't go out from home in the last 1 1/2 year, does not have physical friends, stays all day on the computer, is smart, but refuses to make school lessons now, and he wants to wear only sweat pants! Before becoming so strange, he was upset the school does not teach about "life", just make you memorize. Please, help. What to do?