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Suggest Treatment For Symptoms Of Egodystonic
Question: I am a married men with 1 child.
Ever since i was young , i have been called a sissy everwhere. I changed evergthjng. From the way i talk, walk, and all. I have cryed and prayed a billion times. I cant help it. Im tired of being girlish. Its not something i do or can do to stop it. Its me. Please help me.
Ever since i was young , i have been called a sissy everwhere. I changed evergthjng. From the way i talk, walk, and all. I have cryed and prayed a billion times. I cant help it. Im tired of being girlish. Its not something i do or can do to stop it. Its me. Please help me.
Brief Answer:
Please provide me more details.
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for asking from HCM
I can understand your concern, but need more details of your problem. You have mentioned that your behaviour appears girlish and you have tried to change yourself but are not getting any improvement.
Do you feel significant stress due to that? Do you feel that your behaviour is girlish or its observation of others?
You are married and have one child. Any problems in sexual intercourse you had or are having?
Have you gone through hormonal profile tests?
Thanks. Please provide the details in follow up.
Take care
Please provide me more details.
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for asking from HCM
I can understand your concern, but need more details of your problem. You have mentioned that your behaviour appears girlish and you have tried to change yourself but are not getting any improvement.
Do you feel significant stress due to that? Do you feel that your behaviour is girlish or its observation of others?
You are married and have one child. Any problems in sexual intercourse you had or are having?
Have you gone through hormonal profile tests?
Thanks. Please provide the details in follow up.
Take care
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Nagamani Ng
Thank you Doctor.
My responce as under :
1/ I dont feel significant stress. I just cry. Sometimes i cry in my heart. It has been a lifelong battle really.
2/ yes i feel my behavior is girlish and also others observe it. Infact i have never been interested in sports , or anything. I never watch any sports on tv.
3/absolutely no problems in sexual intercourse. We have sex. I do get urges for same sex attraction.
4/ no hormonal profile test undergone. Can you pls advise me which hormonal profile test i should do.?
5/ are their any pills / medicines that i could take to improve my testerone levels or other male hormone levels ? I mean make me more manly .
My responce as under :
1/ I dont feel significant stress. I just cry. Sometimes i cry in my heart. It has been a lifelong battle really.
2/ yes i feel my behavior is girlish and also others observe it. Infact i have never been interested in sports , or anything. I never watch any sports on tv.
3/absolutely no problems in sexual intercourse. We have sex. I do get urges for same sex attraction.
4/ no hormonal profile test undergone. Can you pls advise me which hormonal profile test i should do.?
5/ are their any pills / medicines that i could take to improve my testerone levels or other male hormone levels ? I mean make me more manly .
Brief Answer:
Get serum testosterone and prolactin levels done
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for providing details
You have distress due to your behaviour and this means the problem is egodystonic. The behaviour developed due to environmental, psychological factors over the years. You have to accept the problem and have to try to find the ways to come out of the problem.
First of all since you are a happily married male then build your confidence that the external behaviour will not impact your inner manly behaviour. Increase your confidence. Due to your poor confidence it is appearing to you that others are judging your behaviour.
Get Serum Testosterone, Prolactin levels done. The normal levels will rule out any hormonal cause.
Avoid any hormonal pills or injections for treatment because on long term these cause adverse effects.
Make exercise a routine, heavy exercise will help to build muscle and will improve the testosterone levels. This will improve your appearance.
Increase the dietary use of Proteins and complex carbs. Avoid fried or fatty foods.
You can take herbal medicines like Tantex Forte and Confido. These medicines will improve the hormonal levels and libido. This will build the confidence.
Thanks. TAKE CARE
Get serum testosterone and prolactin levels done
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for providing details
You have distress due to your behaviour and this means the problem is egodystonic. The behaviour developed due to environmental, psychological factors over the years. You have to accept the problem and have to try to find the ways to come out of the problem.
First of all since you are a happily married male then build your confidence that the external behaviour will not impact your inner manly behaviour. Increase your confidence. Due to your poor confidence it is appearing to you that others are judging your behaviour.
Get Serum Testosterone, Prolactin levels done. The normal levels will rule out any hormonal cause.
Avoid any hormonal pills or injections for treatment because on long term these cause adverse effects.
Make exercise a routine, heavy exercise will help to build muscle and will improve the testosterone levels. This will improve your appearance.
Increase the dietary use of Proteins and complex carbs. Avoid fried or fatty foods.
You can take herbal medicines like Tantex Forte and Confido. These medicines will improve the hormonal levels and libido. This will build the confidence.
Thanks. TAKE CARE
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Veerisetty Shyamkumar
So if i get testerone levels checked , then i should send you the result to see if there is any abnormality ?
Brief Answer:
Get back to me after tests.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
Yes get your serum testosterone and prolactin levels done and get back to me. If the levels come normal then no need to worry.
Thanks.
Get back to me after tests.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
Yes get your serum testosterone and prolactin levels done and get back to me. If the levels come normal then no need to worry.
Thanks.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Veerisetty Shyamkumar
Brief Answer:
Serum Prolactin and Serum Testosterone levels.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
The tests are Serum Prolactin and Serum Testosterone levels.
No need to go for Estrogen levels. Normal levels of Testosterone and Prolactin will rule out any hormonal issue grossly.
I don't think there is need to go for some other test related to blood as far as your issue is concerned.
Thanks. Take care
Serum Prolactin and Serum Testosterone levels.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
The tests are Serum Prolactin and Serum Testosterone levels.
No need to go for Estrogen levels. Normal levels of Testosterone and Prolactin will rule out any hormonal issue grossly.
I don't think there is need to go for some other test related to blood as far as your issue is concerned.
Thanks. Take care
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Veerisetty Shyamkumar
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