
Suggest Ways To Balance Sexual Energy Levels In The Body

This is XXXX. I am in IT Professional and working in US.
My issue is little bit confidential and personal.
We have been married now 6+ years and we started planning for baby 1.5 years back. My wife's current age is 30. I know that we are little bit late in this planning.
My wife had gone thru "D&C (Dilation and Curettage) with Hysteroscopy" on November 2013. But unfortunately after that due to my work stress I am failed to have intercourse for enough time, that we should.
Question 1: Is it REALLY late for us to have baby.
Question 2: Sometime I fill less energy or interest to have intercourse. As a result it occurs once/two in a month. And my wife was also complaining about that.
Am I loosing interest in sex/intercourse? Is there any way to bring back my sex life smooth?
Appreciate your suggestion and recommendation in both the cases.
Thanks
Try to spend more and more time with wife and spend time in foreplay.
Detailed Answer:
Hello thanks for asking from HCM for your health related queries
I can understand your concern.
First of all I would like to tell you that its not late and your and your wife's age is absolutely normal to have baby. Even most couples in present times have baby even later than the age you have mentioned.
A lot of males with work stress, pressure due to day to day life find less time for sexual intercourse. This is also one of big drawback of urban life. Sex once or twice in a month is really very less and in my opinion you should start to spare time for that. Your wife is also complaining and this may result in frequent fights in between you. Sex is one of integral part of marital life. So yes in my opinion you have lost interest in sexual intercourse.
Yes you can bring back the lost sexual life. Start giving time to your wife. Go for a movie or for a dinner in weekends. Spend more time in foreplay and this would help in hard erection. Keep work pressure out of your personal life. If after this situation remains same then there are certain herbal medicines that can help. Tantex Forte, Confido etc are herbal medicines that have been found useful in poor sexual desire and these will help in erection. These medicines though are not supported by research studies but in practice have been found to be very useful. One to two tablets two times a day should help you. These medicines need no prescription as they are herbal.
If situation remains same then PDE-5 inhibitors like Sildenafil, Tadalafil etc can help you. These medicines when taken about half to one hour before intercourse help in hard erection and improve libido. Please visit a psychiatrist for detailed prescription of these drugs.
Thanks, Hope this helps you. Take care, please don't hesitate to ask again for more doubts.
Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi,
Consultant Psychiatrist.


I will follow your suggestion accordingly.
Thanks for appreciation
Detailed Answer:
Thanks for your appreciation.
Wish you a good health.
Take care


Thanks once again for your consult.
I had few question regarding the same:
What about the medicine Speman From Himalaya.
How long or of what duration, should I take this medicine. Will there be any side affect.
Thanks
Speman is used for infertility and to increase sperm counts
Detailed Answer:
Hello again and thanks for a follow up
Speman is a supplement drug for the cases of infertility that is what they state. The drug has been found to be useful in low sperm counts and improve semen quality and quantity. The drug is not a proper medicine for erectile dysfunction and poor libido in my opinion.
But as the drug is a herbal medicine so you can take it without any fear. So significant side effects. One to two tablets per day during first 4 weeks will be sufficient dosing.
Thanks, Take care


As you suggested earlier, I will go for "Confido"
Thanks and take care
Detailed Answer:
Thanks again and take care.
Please contact again for more doubts.

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