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Question: i asked a question some days back about short height of my wife. which causes stress and depression in me.
she is 4feet 9 inches.
from the day you answered my question, i am tring to accept her height. try to be with her as much as possibe.
please suggest me more ways to get involve with her, also let me know if our first child could change our world?
she is 4feet 9 inches.
from the day you answered my question, i am tring to accept her height. try to be with her as much as possibe.
please suggest me more ways to get involve with her, also let me know if our first child could change our world?
Brief Answer:
think positive; the idea of a child should be wonderful
Detailed Answer:
Hello.
Welcome to HCM.
This is Dr. Swarnava Dattagupta answering your query.
I have gone through your query and the previous queries and understand your concern.
The insecurity you are feeling is because you are afraid of the society- the outer world. But let me tell you that there exists a small world comprising of you two. If you are not happy with her just because she is short, you are missing out the best moments of your life. Put aside all the negative thoughts, be with her, feel loved with her. Compromises are to be done in every aspect of life and this is another small compromise which is necessary. And it will bring you happiness for the rest of your life.
Create romantic moments, give her surprises, attach with her emotionally.
And yes, I completely agree with the idea of a child. If it is the right moment considering all grounds, go ahead with it. The child will strengthen your marital bond definitely.
So be mentally strong and be positive. A happy family life is a bliss and make every effort to make it happier.
Medicines and procedures should be considered later. Consider your wife to be medicine for your depression, dont let her be the cause of it. She cant be held responsible for her height.
Hope this was useful.
Consult me for any further queries.
Wish you all the best.
think positive; the idea of a child should be wonderful
Detailed Answer:
Hello.
Welcome to HCM.
This is Dr. Swarnava Dattagupta answering your query.
I have gone through your query and the previous queries and understand your concern.
The insecurity you are feeling is because you are afraid of the society- the outer world. But let me tell you that there exists a small world comprising of you two. If you are not happy with her just because she is short, you are missing out the best moments of your life. Put aside all the negative thoughts, be with her, feel loved with her. Compromises are to be done in every aspect of life and this is another small compromise which is necessary. And it will bring you happiness for the rest of your life.
Create romantic moments, give her surprises, attach with her emotionally.
And yes, I completely agree with the idea of a child. If it is the right moment considering all grounds, go ahead with it. The child will strengthen your marital bond definitely.
So be mentally strong and be positive. A happy family life is a bliss and make every effort to make it happier.
Medicines and procedures should be considered later. Consider your wife to be medicine for your depression, dont let her be the cause of it. She cant be held responsible for her height.
Hope this was useful.
Consult me for any further queries.
Wish you all the best.
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