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Suggest Ways To Improve Communication In A Relationship

Posted on Wed, 15 Mar 2017

Question: How to properly talk to partner about becoming exclusive and or committed without him feeling like he's being nagged or forced into it?

Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Opening your heart to your partner may help

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.

I have read your query and understand your interests in having a stable relationship.

Although there is no all well answer for your question but as per my opinion having a XXXXXXX discussion and communication is the key for stable relationship. As per my experience with couples poor communication is the main cause of dispute and it should be avoided at al cost.

Once a open dialogue is there you can know more about your partner and decide whether there is a person can be committed or otherwise. In case you feel the person is not able to commit then take your decision to either move on or stay as per your choice.

I hope this helps you.
If you have more questions feel free to contact me.
Thanks again.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (40 minutes later)

thanks for responding, but if this is a strictly physical relationship with strong attraction in the physical form, where both partners agreed to not be physical with each other but the second we see one another we end up gluded together so to speak, can this be unhealthy or is it normal to have such strong sexual attraction for someone without any commitment

Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (11 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Follow up

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for follow up.

I would say it is natural to have sexual intercourse when there is strong physical attraction. You may want to do something different at conscious level but sex do not follow your conscious thoughts and reaction is innate.

I hope this clarifies.
Thanks and regards.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (39 minutes later)

ok so are you saying the initial feeling of wanting to have sex with this person is a natural reaction from attraction but consciously its not controlled?

Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (42 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Follow up

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Yes I mean the same.

Thanks again.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad