Brief Answer:
The younger the woman, the more time it takes. Opposite for men.

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thank you for using Healthcaremagic to post your health query.
I read carefully your question and I understand your concern.

I am afraid to tell you that it is how human body works- A young woman and an old man needs longer time to reach orgasm, while a old woman and a young man reaches it in short time.
The good news is that it comes to a point in life when the man and woman would reach orgasm in almost the same time.

What you can do is to experiment together and know your bodies. So you will know what you like, what works better for you, what makes you come faster. Make it a priority to please the other, and things will run smoothly itself.

But again, what you are experiencing it is not a pathology, it is just who you are and you just need to get yo know yourself more in every experience.

Hope this is helpful.
Let me know if you need more clarifications.

Regards,     
Dr. Papaqako

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Brief Answer:
It is personal. What works for a woman, doesn't work for another

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thank you for the follow-up question.

As I said above, it is personal. What may work for you will not work for someone else. There is evidence of techniques that work better then others.

So if vibrator is ok for you, then use it. But there are women who don't like some particular ones, and like some others.

Hope this helps and clarifies you.

Regards,
Dr.Papaqako

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