Question: Sir,

I(M-42yr, wt 81kg) on 27th OCt-2013, visited a masseuse parlour and done unprotected oral sex and had cunniling her vaginal part(around) through our tongue for maximum two/three minute. She also sucked my penis (covered with condome). I also took bath with her with warm water. I had not vaginal/anal sex or full intercourse. In that time I did not felt any things on my tongue. But after some time (around 30 min), I felt some sticky lubricant on my tongue. Immediately I washed my tongue with warm water.

Dt of exposure- 27-10-13

1. First feeling- tasteless/dry mouth/tingling/inflamtion/pain in mouth and tongue – started from 4th week /29days (on 25-11-13) and continued up to 9month(July’14).
2. Night sweating – started from 4th week to 18th week(4month)
2. Felt vague feeling/wiron/inflamation in body- from 4th week
3. Mild fever(98degree) for 3-4 days- in 5th week
4. Cold blister appeared on corner of left lip- 6th week
5. Swollen Lymph nodes(under the both jaw line) and pain – started from 7th week/ 52days to continued
6. Having muscle ache /pain in both shoulder & thigh and weakness.


It has passed 10month from exposer(27th OCT-13), still I am feeling some thing wrong in my body, which are as under

1.     Feel regular acute pain in shoulder muscles, problem in normal hand movement.
2.     Feel heaviness and pain in lymphnodes under jaw line and pressure/stretch in neck, which radiate up to shoulder.
3.     feel irregular pain under jaw line/ joint(mandibular area), which radiate in jaw muscles, gum and from neck to shoulder joint.
4.     Sometimes also feel heaviness in my both testicle, and light pain which radiate from testicle to lower abdomen via pelvis and also radiate in thigh muscle.
5.     From last 15 days, I feel some digestion problem like acidity, less appetite.

6.      Feeling some times dizziness and fatigue.


Still I have not gone for HIV test.

But I had test for WBC and CD4
on 5th FEB’2014- WBC-7200, CD4-436. cholestrol- 235, TG-300, Sugar(FBS)-95
on 12th Sept’2014 – WBC-7400, cholestrol- 230, TG-300, Sugar(FBS)-105

Is it the symptoms of HIV infection ?

I am living with my family(wife , two kids, father), but from the day of exposure to till, I have not any sex(Oral/Viginal/anal) with my wife. But her RA factor found positive in March’14, is it any way related to the exposure ?

I am also sharing same bed/utensils/toilet/comb/towel/wash basin/car/TV remote/nobs/handle/books/house holds etc. Is there any chance to get infected of my family members ?

1.     Do Salvia/sweat/tear/urine/spite/vomating/nosal waste have hiv virus or able to transmit the same ?
2.     How many time/duration this hiv virus survive in open air at normal temp ?

Request to advice pl.