Brief Answer:
your HIV risk is negligible

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for posting your query.
All the massage parlor employees are not necessarily HIV positive individuals. If it so then there is no question of HIV/STI risk at all. They also would be very careful in their profession.
Even if we consider the massager is a HIV positive individual, the hand job, and the touching of penis with hands have no risk for HIV/STI.
Assuming that she had cut injury on her hands and she is a HIV positive woman (Nobody can handle others with fresh bleeding) and touched your penis, then your HIV risk is negligible when compared to penetrative sex.
Dr S. Murugan

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Brief Answer:
your HIV risk is negligible

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
welcome back.
If she had touched your penis and did a hand job alone, then your risk for HIV/STI is almost 'NIL"
If she had a bleeding over her hands and touched your penis, we cannot estimate the risk is 'NIL', as we don't know any microscopic abrasions or cuts over your penile skin or mucous membrane, which you won't feel at all, were there or not. Moreover, Medicine is not mathematics to get a constant answer. I cannot assure '0' risk, if it was the situation explained by you. At the same time that type of situation is very odd.
Dr S. Murugan

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Brief Answer:
If you have doubt, then go for test

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
You are the best judge and you only knew the situation.
If you feel or believe that woman had a bleeding wound on her hand while she was handling your penis, then it is always better to rule out HLV with appropriate test after the window period. Then only you can enjoy and resume sex with your wife whole heartedly.
Dr S. Murugan

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