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What Causes Difficulty In Attaining Orgasm During Intercourse In Woman?
Question: I've asked this question before but I really need your help... My self and my boyfriend have sex all the time, before we actually start I'm always quite wet. We sometimes have foreplay and then have sex but during foreplay and sex I never Oragasm/ cum ever! I'm wet yes but I never cum! We tried using a vibrator to but I don't know what else to do because the vibrator is hard to use when having sex at the same time. When he uses the vibrator on me it sometimes hurts and sometimes I just don't feel comfortable. It annoys him that I don't cum and that makes me frustrated, it's like I'm numb or broken! Please help it gets me down that I'm not making him feel like he's pleasing me! He cums all the time.
Brief Answer:
Women are much more difficult to have an orgasm
Detailed Answer:
Hello dear,
Thank you for using this site. I read carefully your concern and I understand it.
It is a fact that it is more difficult for women to have an orgasm in the early age, but with the time it becomes more easy. This happens partly because with the time women know better themselves, what pleases them and what turns them off.
For this reason, it very important a great communication between partners.
Try to understand what you like in bed and tell them constantly to your boyfriend. Its a man's job to stimulate his woman until she reaches orgasm. Sometime foreplay may need to last and last, but the more the need for becoming one with your partner, the stronger the orgasm will be.
Stimulating the clit and the G-spot are very important in this process, but those need to be combined with a foreplay according your pleasure.
Don't worry, its nothing that doesn't go well with you. Its just the complicated way that women are made. Communicate with your partner, and commit together to knowing each other.
When the other person pleasure becomes the aim during the sexual relationship, you will understand that its more fun.
Hope this is helpful.
Let me know if you have any more queries.
Regards,
Dr. Papaqako
Women are much more difficult to have an orgasm
Detailed Answer:
Hello dear,
Thank you for using this site. I read carefully your concern and I understand it.
It is a fact that it is more difficult for women to have an orgasm in the early age, but with the time it becomes more easy. This happens partly because with the time women know better themselves, what pleases them and what turns them off.
For this reason, it very important a great communication between partners.
Try to understand what you like in bed and tell them constantly to your boyfriend. Its a man's job to stimulate his woman until she reaches orgasm. Sometime foreplay may need to last and last, but the more the need for becoming one with your partner, the stronger the orgasm will be.
Stimulating the clit and the G-spot are very important in this process, but those need to be combined with a foreplay according your pleasure.
Don't worry, its nothing that doesn't go well with you. Its just the complicated way that women are made. Communicate with your partner, and commit together to knowing each other.
When the other person pleasure becomes the aim during the sexual relationship, you will understand that its more fun.
Hope this is helpful.
Let me know if you have any more queries.
Regards,
Dr. Papaqako
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