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What Causes Difficulty In Reaching Orgasm?
Question: I know I have asked this question a million times before but it's getting worse and I really don't know what to do! Please help! Every time I have sex with this guy I'm seeing he always gets annoyed because I never orgasm ever!!!!!! Is there something wrong with me???
Brief Answer:
Everything with you is fine.
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXX,
I had gone through your question and understand your concerns.
Everything with you is fine. Almost 45% of females have problems with orgasm.
Please note that most of the men can climax easily but women are not built the same way as men.
During sex You should be focused on feeling the sensations of the stimulation. It has to be pleasure for you. Try to not thinking about the orgasm.
Masturbating may help you to learn which pressures you need to bring you to orgasm so than you can show your partner what you need to make you come. Do not feel embarrassing. You have to show him how you like your body to be touched.
Ask your partner to touch your clitoris with his fingers, you can also use vibrator.
Try different positions where your clitoris is the most stimulated.
Also do not forget about the foreplay.
Hope I have answered your question. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.
Everything with you is fine.
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXX,
I had gone through your question and understand your concerns.
Everything with you is fine. Almost 45% of females have problems with orgasm.
Please note that most of the men can climax easily but women are not built the same way as men.
During sex You should be focused on feeling the sensations of the stimulation. It has to be pleasure for you. Try to not thinking about the orgasm.
Masturbating may help you to learn which pressures you need to bring you to orgasm so than you can show your partner what you need to make you come. Do not feel embarrassing. You have to show him how you like your body to be touched.
Ask your partner to touch your clitoris with his fingers, you can also use vibrator.
Try different positions where your clitoris is the most stimulated.
Also do not forget about the foreplay.
Hope I have answered your question. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.
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