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What Causes Erectile Dysfunction During Intercourse?
Question: sir i am loving one girl from 1 month before i was using hand sex three time in week, i was normal with hand sex, but now the situation is totally different, when she loving with me like and touch, i have start my under wear wet and starting weakness, some time i have refuse her that i am not able to do sex, but she loving me, she told me that one week will be wait for me, after that she will leave me, so tell me some medicine or formula for quickly restore me, i am hot in bed but i donot whats happened with me, i have totally confused
thanks
thanks
Brief Answer:
It is performance anxiety
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXX,
Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.
If you can masturbate well, you can do sex as well. Both are same process with different methods. You can masturbate means physically you are fit. Performance anxiety is playing a role. When person gives attention to erection while trying for intercourse it gets loose.
When you start love, due to arousal precum - fluid from penis couper's glands- comes out and underpants becomes wet. It acts as a lubricant to prevent friction with vagina when you insert penis and do sex. Do not be nervous when your underpant becomes wet. Just carry on with romantic/erotic feelings without being conscious about erection. With this understanding you can relax and attempt sex. You will likely succeed.
In any case if you want sure fast result as you do not want to lose your girlfriend you can use medicine.
PDE 5 inhibitor group of medicines like sildenafil or tadalafil can be used. One of them should be taken before 2 hours of sex. They cause headache and stuffy nose as side effects sometime. You need to take prescription from your doctor for this.
I recommend 2-3 attempts without medicines.
Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr Chintan Solanki.
It is performance anxiety
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXX,
Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.
If you can masturbate well, you can do sex as well. Both are same process with different methods. You can masturbate means physically you are fit. Performance anxiety is playing a role. When person gives attention to erection while trying for intercourse it gets loose.
When you start love, due to arousal precum - fluid from penis couper's glands- comes out and underpants becomes wet. It acts as a lubricant to prevent friction with vagina when you insert penis and do sex. Do not be nervous when your underpant becomes wet. Just carry on with romantic/erotic feelings without being conscious about erection. With this understanding you can relax and attempt sex. You will likely succeed.
In any case if you want sure fast result as you do not want to lose your girlfriend you can use medicine.
PDE 5 inhibitor group of medicines like sildenafil or tadalafil can be used. One of them should be taken before 2 hours of sex. They cause headache and stuffy nose as side effects sometime. You need to take prescription from your doctor for this.
I recommend 2-3 attempts without medicines.
Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Arnab Banerjee
sir you are right i want to share one thing, when i wet my underwear without discharge come down and then i feeling weakness from legs and backboan, then i want to leave the girl and go away,
thanks
thanks
Brief Answer:
it is psychological issue likely
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
Feeling weakness in legs and backbone during sex is likely due to psychological reasons (performance anxiety as I told before).
I recommend continuing the process of sex and enjoy the sex without being worried about weakness. With practice you can enjoy without any discomfort.
Take care.
it is psychological issue likely
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
Feeling weakness in legs and backbone during sex is likely due to psychological reasons (performance anxiety as I told before).
I recommend continuing the process of sex and enjoy the sex without being worried about weakness. With practice you can enjoy without any discomfort.
Take care.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. REMY KOSHY
sir but another problem before one month when i wakeup morning my dick was always up, but now some time happened that. on saturay is my first day with her, before you have some others advice please explain me thanks
Brief Answer:
nothing to worry, go for serum testosterone level
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for asking our concern.
It is not necessary to have daily morning erection. For assurance you can go for free and total serum fasting testosterone level.It will likely come normal and that means you don't have any physical problem.
All the best for Saturday and just keep above suggestions in our mind and move ahead.
If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and give your feedback and rating so I can improve my service.
In future if you wish you can contact me directly with following link:
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
by clicking on 'Ask me a question' on same page with three follow up questions.
nothing to worry, go for serum testosterone level
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for asking our concern.
It is not necessary to have daily morning erection. For assurance you can go for free and total serum fasting testosterone level.It will likely come normal and that means you don't have any physical problem.
All the best for Saturday and just keep above suggestions in our mind and move ahead.
If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and give your feedback and rating so I can improve my service.
In future if you wish you can contact me directly with following link:
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
by clicking on 'Ask me a question' on same page with three follow up questions.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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