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Sex is just not matter of meeting of two bodies. For sex your mind should be in relax status also.I guess husband has erectile dysfunction problem.(His penis does not erect sufficiently to enter in to vagina and last up to both you have an orgasm.)

Even after 3 months of marriage if you were not able to have successful sexual relationship, help of sexologist/Psychiatrist is required.Sex is act of two, so you both should consult the doctor.

There can be any of the reason mentioned below for your problem.

Husband is in tension and that tension is so much that he has depression and lack of desire to have sex.For that treatment of tension/stress/depression required.Simultaneously treatment with PDE-5 inhibitor like sildenafil or tadalafil would help which is your case. In your case this medicine will work.

Deficiency of testosterone which can be checked in laboratory.Supplementation of testosterone can treat that problem.

Lack of intimacy and disturbed relationship in other part of life between partners beside sex.For that relationship counseling needed.

Apart from that if any injury to spinal cord at L4,L5 level which is nerve supply for sex may hamper the sex.

Master & XXXXXXX Sex therapy is also can be applied in couple sex counseling

To guide you more I would like to know from you without hesitation," You have visited the doctor, tell me detail of that. Have you or your husband has past experience of successful sex before marriage? What type of tension does he have? He is able to erect but ejaculate early before you satisfy?What exactly happen when you go for sex?"

Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

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