Question: Hi I just found a half empty bottle of strawberry vodka under my 16 year old daughters bed. She recently told me she had experimented with pot but stopped. She has been honest with me that she drinks at some parties having "only" (her words not mine) two beers or one beer and a shot or two shots. I found an 8oz water bottle filled with vodka in her room and she told me she wants her own so she does not take a chance using other peoples vodka. We discussed it and I told her that hard liquor was terrible on her organs. She is an honors student under great stress maintaining her grades doing ballet doing track. Lately I find her to be more grumpy - she has lost weight - she does not want to eat on a regular basis she has a coffee every morning and a banana and then only eats when she gets home. My father was an alcoholic my brother was a cocaine addict and her grandma and aunt on the other side have addiction issues. I believe I may have a highly functioning alcoholic daughter now and need some very direct advice on how to proceed forward. She has taken AP honors tests, SAT tests, prep courses and maintained her GPA of 3,90 and all her activities so I see no change in that side of things but I am so worried now. Please help me.