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What Causes Low Libido?

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Posted on Wed, 10 Dec 2014
Question: My bf rarely wants sex anymore and rarely ever kisses hugs or performs any foreplay...i dont know what to think our sex life was the most fantastic sex i ever had at first
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Answered by Dr. Kathy Robinson (57 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Talk to him;see counselor

Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX and thanks for consulting HCM.

I need more details about your symptoms to be able to help you. You may explain when and how it started, what makes it worse and better etc.

Things change with time in relationships. You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him your concerns and desires. If he is willing it would be good to see a counselor that is an expert in intimate relationships. It is possible and healthy to have an active and enjoyable sex life even though your relationship changes with time. You must ask for what you want and desire and hopefully your boyfriend will be able to talk to you about what is going on with him. I hope that you will be able to work this out and have a fulfilling relationship again.

Thanks
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What Causes Low Libido?

Brief Answer: Talk to him;see counselor Detailed Answer: Hi XXXXXXX and thanks for consulting HCM. I need more details about your symptoms to be able to help you. You may explain when and how it started, what makes it worse and better etc. Things change with time in relationships. You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him your concerns and desires. If he is willing it would be good to see a counselor that is an expert in intimate relationships. It is possible and healthy to have an active and enjoyable sex life even though your relationship changes with time. You must ask for what you want and desire and hopefully your boyfriend will be able to talk to you about what is going on with him. I hope that you will be able to work this out and have a fulfilling relationship again. Thanks