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What Causes Orgasmic Dysfunction?

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Posted on Fri, 31 Oct 2014
Question: hello doctor. I am a 32 year old woman and I have never spoken a word of this to anyone. I have never in my life had an orgasm. I always thought it was that my ex boyfriends just wernt that great and I got so used to faking it, but im with the love of my life and I still cant even enjoy it. I don't even have a sex drive we r so in love and we have sex maby twice a year. and I feel horrible because he stays faithful. is there something wrong with me physicaly its all there emotionaly. maby a class I can take or medication?
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Answered by Dr. Dalia Muraleedharan (58 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
You require a counselling from a sexologist

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for writing..
I understand your concern..

This a problem faced by about 50-60% women. Many have not experienced orgasm throughout their life.. So its not necessary that you have a physical problem..

Orgasm lasts only for a few seconds in most of them. Some get it multiple times. You need to have proper stimulation prior to intercourse. There is a spot in the anterior vaginal wall called G spot. Stimulation in the G spot causes orgasm.

You can try this method. If found unsuccessful get a counselling from a sexologist in person..

Hope I have answered your query. Feel free to ask any doubts.. Good day..
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What Causes Orgasmic Dysfunction?

Brief Answer: You require a counselling from a sexologist Detailed Answer: Hi, Thanks for writing.. I understand your concern.. This a problem faced by about 50-60% women. Many have not experienced orgasm throughout their life.. So its not necessary that you have a physical problem.. Orgasm lasts only for a few seconds in most of them. Some get it multiple times. You need to have proper stimulation prior to intercourse. There is a spot in the anterior vaginal wall called G spot. Stimulation in the G spot causes orgasm. You can try this method. If found unsuccessful get a counselling from a sexologist in person.. Hope I have answered your query. Feel free to ask any doubts.. Good day..