Brief Answer: DETAILS ARE GIVEN BELOW. Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for writing to us. First time sexual intercourse is mostly painful among women due to intact hymen, narrow vagina or insufficient arousal state. When she will arouse or excite, the vaginal canal lengthens & expands so that you can enter your penis and she will produce vaginal lubrication (to prevent uncomfortable friction from thrusting). She might be just nervous if it was first time sex which may cause her vaginal muscles to tighten, making penetration or fingering more difficult and painful. Steps to be done for easy and smooth sexual intercourse: 1) Next time, you must indulge in lots of foreplay to arouse her in top level to increase her vaginal lubrication before penetration. 2) She would be in more relaxed state and both of you will create a romantic environment so that she can focus and enjoy her sex. 3) It will also help if you add water-based lube (like KY gel or VAGISIL etc) to her vagina for easier penetration. Make it a part of preplay by having you lube her, then return the favor and ask her to apply it on condom-covered erected penis right before you enter her. 4) It's important that you must communicate to her what feels good and what doesn't. You can let her know what she needs by saying like a little slower or harder or just like that and so on. 5) Also, you can try a woman-on-top position, which will put her in control of the depth and rhythm. Once you get used to the ins and outs of sex, it should be a lot more comfortable and fun. Last thing, if pain during sexual intercourse (termed as Dyspareunia) continues, she needs to undergo some investigation under the guidance of Gynecologist to rule out pelvic organic disease like endometriosis, vaginal septa, hypoplasia of introitus, vaginal or pelvic infection etc. Hope, I have answered your query. Kindly, close the discussion if you don't have any other query. Wish your good health and take care yourself. Regards, Dr Soumen You can revert back to me directly through http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/Funnel?page=askDoctorDirectly&docId=63326

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Brief Answer: FOLLOW THE ADVICE. Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for follow up queries. 1) The first thing, hymen should be broken for proper sexual intercourse. It can be done either by fingering or penetration. Slight pain and bleeding may occur for 2 to 3 days. However, no medical treatment is usually required. 2) KY gel is a water based lubricant and it should be used 15 to 20 min prior to actual intimation or fingering. It is applied inside vagina with circular motion. Alternatively, VAGISIL INTIMATE LUBRICANT CREAM can be used. They have NO side effect or irritation inside vagina. SUGGESTION: Following use of lubricant gel and apply above said methods, if problem persists continuously, I suggest to proceed one pelvic examination to her gynecologist for next level management. Hope, it helps for your information. Kindly, close the discussion. Good luck and all the best. Regards, Dr Soumen

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