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What Causes Physical Abuse In Relationships?

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Posted on Fri, 17 Apr 2015
Question: I need somebody to help me, I do not wanna talk to family or friends any longer about the problems my husbandand I are having. He doesn't beat me but is physically abusive, although he blames me for everything. I know we have our problems and willing to work on that, but I know longer know what to do or where to turn.

I'm not scared for my life, just scared for my(our) future as we had plans to start a business
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Answered by Dr. Shoaib Khan (4 hours later)
Brief Answer:
I need some information from you first if you do not mind ma'am

Detailed Answer:
Hello ma'am and welcome.

Thank you for writing to us.

I have gone through your query with diligence and would like you to know that I am here to help. Before we start getting into the very depths of this conversation, I need answers to some very important and basic information, they are:

+Do you really love your husband for who he is and how he is?
+Do you want him to change? if yes, do you really think he can change?
+Give me 5 reasons why you choose to be with him, and want to be with him?
+Do you want to sort things out with him (for whatever reason, be it because you both love each other immensely, etc.)? If yes, do you really think he is worth it?
+Do you have children? If not, are you on contraception or birth control?
+Can you imagine living the rest of your life with him, the way he is, if at all he never changes, happily?

Before I can advise you and point you in one direction, I need to better understand your situation, your relationship with him, etc; so that my response to you is completely fair and hopefully correct. I look forward to hearing from you in order to help you ma'am, you can trust me with any information you wish to share, and I promise it shall remain between the two of us.

Best wishes.
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What Causes Physical Abuse In Relationships?

Brief Answer: I need some information from you first if you do not mind ma'am Detailed Answer: Hello ma'am and welcome. Thank you for writing to us. I have gone through your query with diligence and would like you to know that I am here to help. Before we start getting into the very depths of this conversation, I need answers to some very important and basic information, they are: +Do you really love your husband for who he is and how he is? +Do you want him to change? if yes, do you really think he can change? +Give me 5 reasons why you choose to be with him, and want to be with him? +Do you want to sort things out with him (for whatever reason, be it because you both love each other immensely, etc.)? If yes, do you really think he is worth it? +Do you have children? If not, are you on contraception or birth control? +Can you imagine living the rest of your life with him, the way he is, if at all he never changes, happily? Before I can advise you and point you in one direction, I need to better understand your situation, your relationship with him, etc; so that my response to you is completely fair and hopefully correct. I look forward to hearing from you in order to help you ma'am, you can trust me with any information you wish to share, and I promise it shall remain between the two of us. Best wishes.