HealthCareMagic is now Ask A Doctor - 24x7 | https://www.askadoctor24x7.com

question-icon

Why Do I Always Feel Like People Everywhere Do Not Like Me And Behave In A Rude Manner?

default
Posted on Fri, 9 Sep 2022
Question: Hello, I just feel like people in general don't like me and are nicer to other people than they are to me and pick on me more. Like one time the teacher in school was asking me about my culture, and I answered her question, and one girl was like, "This is so boring. Does anybody want to hear this?" And then one time I was flipping the channels and the person in the room was like, "You are so quick to judge the tv shows." And then one time I told a group of people that I felt like people were competing with me because I'll say my grade and they'll say they made higher and they went off on me for an hour and a half saying things like, "What were you expecting, maybe they think you're being competitive. I have a lot of friends, I wouldn't wanna be friends with someone who misinterprets things. It would be too much work." And then one time I went to the doctor with my mom because I was throwing up and the doctor asked me why I think I threw up and I said maybe because I ate the same thing three times and he acted like I was so rude and like I was making fun of my mom's cooking. Please tell me why people in general don't like me and why an overwhelming amount of people have been reacting negatively to me.
doctor
Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (28 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Please provide me little more details.

Detailed Answer:

Hello,

Based upon the history you provided I don’t think people don’t like you. In my opinion the awareness that people don’t like you is bad and this is causing the problems. This could be due to anxiety which is resulting in such thoughts.

Some episodes you described suggest they these should be ignored. Do you feel bad because of these thoughts in mind? Do you believe that the thoughts you have that people don’t like you are your own thoughts and this could not be real or do you think the thoughts are firm and right?

Thanks

Please provide the details in follow up.
Note: For further guidance on mental health, Click here.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad
doctor
Answered by
Dr.
Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi

Psychiatrist

Practicing since :2007

Answered : 5192 Questions

premium_optimized

The User accepted the expert's answer

Share on

Get personalised answers from verified doctor in minutes across 80+ specialties

159 Doctors Online

By proceeding, I accept the Terms and Conditions

HCM Blog Instant Access to Doctors
HCM Blog Questions Answered
HCM Blog Satisfaction
Why Do I Always Feel Like People Everywhere Do Not Like Me And Behave In A Rude Manner?

Brief Answer: Please provide me little more details. Detailed Answer: Hello, Based upon the history you provided I don’t think people don’t like you. In my opinion the awareness that people don’t like you is bad and this is causing the problems. This could be due to anxiety which is resulting in such thoughts. Some episodes you described suggest they these should be ignored. Do you feel bad because of these thoughts in mind? Do you believe that the thoughts you have that people don’t like you are your own thoughts and this could not be real or do you think the thoughts are firm and right? Thanks Please provide the details in follow up.