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Will Masturbation Affect My Married Life?

Posted on Tue, 3 Dec 2013

Question: My age is 25 years(Male), Sometime i get morning erection, some times not, i doing masturbation on daily basis. I am getting married next month. Anything to worry ??

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (17 minutes later)

Brief Answer: Hello Detailed Answer: Welcome to XXXXXXX Masturbation is a healthy practice and it is done by most of males. It does not cause decrease in erection and any problem in married life. There is nothing to worry. Morning erections are physiological and they are not observed regularly. Their absence warrant some problem but decreased frequency don't signify any problem. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (10 minutes later)

If i will abstain from masturbation on daily basis, will this help morning erection. When i masturbate i get good erection.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (19 hours later)

Brief Answer: Hello again Detailed Answer: Abstinence from masturbation for few days will increase the frequencies of early morning erections as the process is totally physiological. If you are getting good erections then there is no need to worry about early morning erections. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (27 hours later)

Doctor I have one worry.... I am doing masturbation on daily basis sometimes once a day , sometimes twice a day and sometimes it went four times a day............. Will it effect hardness of penis or size of penis. My size is 14 cm when fully erect , is it normal..... Wil it effect my sexual life after marriage.I am getting married next month, should I stop it now... Basic problem I am staying alone. whenever I masturbate, I instantly compare that with previous one and started worrying..... And to satisfy my self I will try another session of masturbation....... Wi'll it effect my fertility,? Please help me out.........

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (29 hours later)

Brief Answer: Hello Detailed Answer: Welcome to XXXXXXX It will not affect hardness of penis as well as it will not affect the potency. It is completely a healthy practice. The size is absolutely fine and it is equivalent to average size of penis of Indian men. There is no need to stop masturbation but you can decrease the frequency of masturbation to once a day. It will not affect married life. It will not affect fertility. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (42 hours later)

Doctor one more question when i masturbate some time my penis was having good size and same time i feel to urinate and as when i urinate my penis size got decreased, it is hard but not that much as it was before urinate? anything serious or it is normal ?

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (21 hours later)

Brief Answer: Hello again Detailed Answer: Individual can not pass urine in erected state so it is physiological to decrease in erection while urination. Don't think about this again and again as it will decrease confidence only. This is absolutely normal. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)

Doctor i felt that urge to urinate before ejaculation , but it happens very rarely . I am staying alone so i got worried very easily, as i am getting married next month so i am more worried for that reason also. Please help me out.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (10 hours later)

Brief Answer: Hello again Detailed Answer: Urge to urinate during erection or just before ejaculation may occur due to some form of urinary infections. But you are having these problems rarely so there is no need to worry. This is purely physiological. Increase your fluid intake and if possible empty your bladder before intercourse. Don't think about this thing again and again. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (9 days later)

Doctor one mire question I usually addicted to porn from yesterday onwards I am not getting erected by watching porn stuff. But I got erection while having dirty talks or honeymoon task with my fiancee.... Is it normal, or anything to worry. I am getting married on 19 of this month... Plz help

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (5 hours later)

Brief Answer: Hello again Detailed Answer: This is a normal thing just before marriage that you may get poor arousal with porn and you will be getting good erection on talking with your wife. There are a lot of misconceptions about sexual life and most of the individuals tend to think in wrong way regarding their potency. As I have said again there is no need to worry about these thing, you are in anxiety only and there is nothing wrong in you. Please don't take undue stress about these things. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (13 hours later)

Thanks doctor, is it lost of libido ? I am very worried ? how to remain hunger for sex , i mean to say how to excited remain about my wife. any supplement you would like to suggest me for increasing sex excitement.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (28 minutes later)

Brief Answer: Hello again Detailed Answer: If you want to increase your performance there are a number of drugs that can be used. Herbal medicines like Tantex forte, Tantex royal can be used. These medicines are free of serious side effects and are completely safe. These are available with most of shops and need no prescription. You can go with these medicines, but as these are herbal medicines there are no specific studies that denote their effectiveness. Apart from that you can take fenugreek seeds ( methi in Hindi ). In a lot of studies these are found useful in increasing libido. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (3 minutes later)

Doctor thanks, what you think it is my anxiety or any thing serious ? Please help

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (20 hours later)

Brief Answer: Hello Detailed Answer: Welcome again Its anticipatory anxiety only and there is nothing serious. Please believe yourself, such type of anxiety is seen in a lot of individuals. Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (2 hours later)

Doctor, things are not going my way now i am unable to masturbate for last one day. i am very worried . no interest in porn and nude pictures , on saturday i masturbate more than six times and on sunday i masturabte more than five time becoz of anixety... On monday also i masturbate through only hand pumping , not getting erected by porn and my finacee talks..... Today morining i had hard morning erection but when i woke up and i tried to masturbate, , i failed . please help doctor , i am very worried because i will have my first sex after seven days.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (29 hours later)

Brief Answer: Hello again Detailed Answer: The all events that are happening since last few days are pointing towards anxiety only. You have masturbated about 11 times in just 2 days and this is really not a good thing for your health. Masturbation is safe but excess masturbation just to check potency on compulsion basis can cause harm to patient. You will be getting married in few days so please leave all worries behind and try to divert attention from sex. Don't try to check yourself again and again by masturbation. You are getting enough erection on stimulation, in early morning so there is nothing pathological. Best is to stop thinking about this again and again otherwise you will cause harm to your health. All these things are anxiety only. Consult a Psychiatrist for detailed treatment. Try relaxation methods like Relaxation Exercises or consult a Psychiatrist. Medicines like low dose benzodiazepines can relieve the symptoms of anxiety for some time. Thanks

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar