My wife and I have been married for 21 years and have a 15 year old daughter. She has always been a bit cold when it came to love making. Now, she is done with it, period. I am 41, she is 43. She refuses to see a gyn. about the issue, and I am about to go Mad!...divorce has come up. She states she loves me as much as when we married, but is ready to give up. Advice, opinion greatly appreciative.