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Advise About Sexual Intercourse Between Couples

Hi i am married for last 5 months..though we both tried our best but we are still virgins..we both had no idea of sex earlier so very confused how to start,,later when we started my wife complaint of pain and fear..please guide me does it pain..what is the position to start..how to reduce pain?
Wed, 10 Sep 2014
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Hi

Welcome to HM.

I understand your concern.

Free communicative and mutual understanding will help
Sex is mutual act     
so try to do mutually and tell your problem to partner.

Gradually involve in sex with proper knowledge is essential.

Try to read from net and learn from video.

Education is must so both of you require proper learning.

Psychological stress and fear can be problem in your sex life but love and intimacy between you can solve it.

Trust is also important.

Long foreplay with erotic material can increase desire.
More lubrication in vagina can help to insert easily and without pain.

So confidence and mutual understanding will help.

Gradual dilatation of vagina by finger start from little finger to middle finger will stretch out vagina and it help for sexual intercourse.

Still have a query then feel free to ask.

Happy to help you.

Thank you.




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Advise About Sexual Intercourse Between Couples

Hi Welcome to HM. I understand your concern. Free communicative and mutual understanding will help Sex is mutual act so try to do mutually and tell your problem to partner. Gradually involve in sex with proper knowledge is essential. Try to read from net and learn from video. Education is must so both of you require proper learning. Psychological stress and fear can be problem in your sex life but love and intimacy between you can solve it. Trust is also important. Long foreplay with erotic material can increase desire. More lubrication in vagina can help to insert easily and without pain. So confidence and mutual understanding will help. Gradual dilatation of vagina by finger start from little finger to middle finger will stretch out vagina and it help for sexual intercourse. Still have a query then feel free to ask. Happy to help you. Thank you.