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Advise On Relationship Problems
im bernadette 33 yrs old from phils, i fall in love to man in net..he was been my lover for more than 3 yrs, in early yrs our chat s almost everyday, and now he wont come online for many months, i was really hurt coz i felt he taken me for granted and i felt im not important n his life, so i broke up with him, but my problem is i still love him till now. wat should i do, pls advise me
Wed, 6 Aug 2014
Hello, thank you for writing in to HCM.
Relationships, even friendships over the internet are a very tricky business. How do you know if the information a person gives over the internet is even true? These kind of alliances are more common among teenagers as they're still unaware of the repercussions and are inquisitive too.. This person has clearly shut you out of his life and you need to move on too.
I'd recommend you to go out into the real world, meet new people and make real friends instead of virtual ones. If you feel the need, take some time off your work and visit a relative/friend or go on a vacation. The exposure and change in environment alone would work a great deal in making you realize that there's so much more to life.
Hope this was helpful. All the best!
Relationships, even friendships over the internet are a very tricky business. How do you know if the information a person gives over the internet is even true? These kind of alliances are more common among teenagers as they're still unaware of the repercussions and are inquisitive too.. This person has clearly shut you out of his life and you need to move on too.
I'd recommend you to go out into the real world, meet new people and make real friends instead of virtual ones. If you feel the need, take some time off your work and visit a relative/friend or go on a vacation. The exposure and change in environment alone would work a great deal in making you realize that there's so much more to life.
Hope this was helpful. All the best!
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