My husband won t have sex with me, it s been one year. I feel very depressed and cry often. I think about sleeping with other men now. I have now a very strong desire to go ahead and sleep with someone else. However the repercussions of this on my marriage is stopping me. I am physically feeling sick --- weakness, headache, sadness, loss of appetite. Could having no sex for such a long time actully make one sick like this? I am 32 years old, 135 pounds, 5 4 height