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My wife and I have a healthy sexual relationship. We have just started vaginal fisting and she enjoys it. We have 2 children so I know the vagina will return to normal size after childbirth. My concern is that with prolonged fisting it will loosen her vagina to the point that regular sex will not be as pleasurable for either of us. There must be some truth to this do to the fact I bought her a dildo slightly larger than I am the first time she used it as with fisting we had to go slow, now she can slide it in with no problem. I have read many blogs on this and I only get mixed responses. Some people say it ruined there marrage, One woman said that fisting not only loosened her to where she could not feel her husband anymore, but it also changed the appearance of her. Her labia lips became longer and looser. Is any of this real or is it all in my head.
The vaginal muscles are indeed quite adaptive. When regular sexual intercourse or acts like fosting take place, the vaginal muscles adapt and accordingly get as lose. But those same muscles, when left unused (i.e. without sexual intercourse or fisting) for a duration of 3-6 months can easily help them to return to a better (more tight and contracted state).
I would certainly say that fisting can easily result in making the vaginal muscles lose enough to reach a point where the female partner may not be able to enjoy penile penetrstive intercourse anymore and so I would strongly recommend against the act.
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Can Fisting Loosen The Vagina?
Hello sir and welcome. The vaginal muscles are indeed quite adaptive. When regular sexual intercourse or acts like fosting take place, the vaginal muscles adapt and accordingly get as lose. But those same muscles, when left unused (i.e. without sexual intercourse or fisting) for a duration of 3-6 months can easily help them to return to a better (more tight and contracted state). I would certainly say that fisting can easily result in making the vaginal muscles lose enough to reach a point where the female partner may not be able to enjoy penile penetrstive intercourse anymore and so I would strongly recommend against the act. Hope this helps. Best wishes.