Hello I was In a car crash back in 1987 and when i went to hospital for a check they told me that i seamed ok so on the way home i had wet my pants and then i had wet my bed when i woke up the next day anyway this went on for five years and in the end i went for tests and they told me that i had sufferd nerve damage and that they would not want to go any father with treatments as they didn t think they would help, i now use adult nappies day and night . that i have to buy myself, I was catheterised for 4 years but i could not cope with all the spasms so in the end went back to nappies.