My husband cheated on me while he had been drinking. He said he had about six shots of tequila. He was drinking with co-workers and had left the bar on foot. He says he doesn't even remember much about walking back to his hotel room. One of the co-workers was a female and she shows up at his door. He says they had intercourse and doesn't have much memory of what or how it happened. He says he felt as if he did not have a cohearent thought and felt he was not in his body. He says he did not want to have sex with this person and he realized what had happened after it was too late. He felt as if this person took advantage of his situation and did not make a concious decision to do this. He believes someone may have even put something in his drink. He felt he was not in control of thoughts or movement of anything else. But yet he was able to perform and finish. Is this even possible or is this an accuse?