Hi there, I am 9 days post embryo transfere. Before the transfere, i had tender breasts probably due to the meds. On day 8 after transfere, the tenderness has started to disappear!? Today, day 9 there is almost no tenderness. I have had very mild cramping right from the start. My question is .... if breast tenderness is disappearing, is it most likely that i am not pregnant? Ps. This was a donor egg IVF. I have 4 days to go until my pregnancy test and I am getting very stressed!!! Hope you can help. Many thanks indeed. Pippa