Hello, You seem to be suffering from balanitis. In the absence of diabetes,there can be various other causes for balanitis like... Lichen planus  Eczema - A chronic (long-term) skin condition, in which the skin becomes itchy, reddened, cracked and dry. Dermatitis - inflammation of the skin that is caused either by direct contact with an irritant, or an allergic reaction. Psoriasis  Irritation of the skin of the glans may be caused by... Some chemicals that exist in condoms. Some detergents (washing powders) if not completely rinsed Some fabric conditioners if not completely rinsed Some perfumed soaps Due to extra vigorous washing of glans with soap resulting in extreme dryness of glans. You must consult a dermatologist and get the diagnosis made as the treatment would depend upon the cause found. Thanks