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Does Difficulty In Adjusting To Family Members Mean Mental Problem?

due to a family problem i m not with my spouse now. igot married only 0n 2009. now i have a girl baby of 8 months old. i love my husband very much. we were fine til 1.5 years. but i have problem with the members and environment in my mother-in-law house. i m ready to take care of my parent-in-law in future but i don t want to be with them because they won t leave me to live peacefully with my husband. but my husband is not understanding my problem. he insists me to come there to his house. this is my problem. i m working as asst.Prof . apart from my working hour even without my knowledge i think and feel for the situation. i starve for the affection of my husband towards me and my baby. whenever i think of this tears shed from my eyes. icouldn t concentrate in my work. also i feel that everything is over in my life within short period. i want to know do i have any mental problem
Thu, 18 Sep 2014
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Hello,

Thank you for writing to us,

Brief answer -

Thinking of past and feel bad is not a mental problem.

Explained answer -

Everybody has past and everyone trying to forget all the shit happens in there life. Some peoples forget all that without telling to others but some peoples share with people and try to forget that.

That doesn't mean to having mental problem.

I had gone through your past as you described in your section. Would like to suggest something here.

You can't say its all over because you have 8 months old baby. And in relationship all you have to do is compromise at both end.

You and your husband have to compromise something for your baby.
And take another chance to relationship which could help for your baby future.

So, please think for your baby before taking any decision.

Or you should concern a good psychiatrist for more help.

Hope it will work for your relationship.

Take care.

Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Does Difficulty In Adjusting To Family Members Mean Mental Problem?

Hello, Thank you for writing to us, Brief answer - Thinking of past and feel bad is not a mental problem. Explained answer - Everybody has past and everyone trying to forget all the shit happens in there life. Some peoples forget all that without telling to others but some peoples share with people and try to forget that. That doesn t mean to having mental problem. I had gone through your past as you described in your section. Would like to suggest something here. You can t say its all over because you have 8 months old baby. And in relationship all you have to do is compromise at both end. You and your husband have to compromise something for your baby. And take another chance to relationship which could help for your baby future. So, please think for your baby before taking any decision. Or you should concern a good psychiatrist for more help. Hope it will work for your relationship. Take care. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati