Does Having Anal Sex Without Hymen Breaking Cause Loss Of Virginity?

Well when i was in 9th grade a boy came over to my house. He was suppose to come over to play the game with my brother , but really he was a tag along because he came with my sister s boyfriend. I was sleep and when i woke up my sister s boyfriend told me to come here. Being young and dumb I came and he told me that the boy Cory wanted to beat I said nope ! and i went back downstairs. So he called me again and this time i went in my room , and there Cory was in the dark. I knew who he was because he never said nothing to me at school and he went with my best friend. He started touching and rubbing on me and i kept moving his hands. I pushed him to my dresser and i tried to ease my lips against his hoping i could reach for the door but i couldnt . he turned me over and he asked where my hole was. i knew i was doomed so i said just find it . We had anal sex . Does this make me a virgin ? I don t think he broke my hymen . Oh and would you say this is rape ?