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Does Missed Bleeding While Having Sex For The First Time Mean Lost Virginity?

HI Doctor..i have a query..few days back i had sex with my boyfriend,,and i lost my virginity,,,now i am getting married to another person..please help me by guiding me how should i hide from my husbadn that i have lost my virginity..In our culture it is told that a girl has to bleed on first with with her husband,,it is not possible for me to bleed as had sex several times with my boy friend and it already bleeded on first time when i had sex with me..please help me..
Fri, 21 Nov 2014
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Hello
I am Dr Aamir and i will be answering your query.
Well first of all you and your husband need to understand that it is not necessary that if a girl doesnot bleed on first night having sex. Lot of girls does not bleed at all and few bleed. It is a common myth in our culture that girl has to bleed first time she had sex.
You have to convince him and make him talk to a doctor regarding this.
I would like to advice you if you are already doing sex before marriage practise safe sex with condom . Because if you get sexually transmitted disease(STD) from your partner then he will probably know that you was sexually active before marriage.

If you can not convince him after marriage about bleeding , you can do hymenoplasty by plastic surgeon but it is a expensive procedure.
Hope i have answered your query , if you have further questions kindly let me know.
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Does Missed Bleeding While Having Sex For The First Time Mean Lost Virginity?

Hello I am Dr Aamir and i will be answering your query. Well first of all you and your husband need to understand that it is not necessary that if a girl doesnot bleed on first night having sex. Lot of girls does not bleed at all and few bleed. It is a common myth in our culture that girl has to bleed first time she had sex. You have to convince him and make him talk to a doctor regarding this. I would like to advice you if you are already doing sex before marriage practise safe sex with condom . Because if you get sexually transmitted disease(STD) from your partner then he will probably know that you was sexually active before marriage. If you can not convince him after marriage about bleeding , you can do hymenoplasty by plastic surgeon but it is a expensive procedure. Hope i have answered your query , if you have further questions kindly let me know.