Hello, You most likely have very infected tonsils. You may have an abscess that will not release a stone, but needs antibiotic treatment and possible removal of the tonsils if medication can not resolve the infection, Recurrent episodes of infection will result in a removal recommendation. Realize tonsils are a first line of defense and if chronic infections occur, the inflammation is too great and they become too uncomfortable to do their job. The numbness that you report indicate an infection that has spread. Rinse with warm salt water, avoid irritants and take some Antiinflammitory medication such as Tylenol or Advil. Visit your Doctor or Ear nose and throat specialist to determine your necessary treatment. This sounds like a situation that will get worse without professional care. Cancer or tumors are a possibility. Your doctor will give you a diagnosis and put your mind at ease. Thank you for your inquiry.