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Habituated To Fingering, Have Pain Inside Vagina, Getting Married. Will It Cause Problems In Future ?

Hi doctor I am 25 year old female now. Since 5 year I was suffering from sexually child abuse. Many people from society used me for their sexual fulfillment till my menstrual cycle started. After my periods started I came to know what all happened to me but i was so habitual of sexual feeling that i automatically started doing finger sex. Now I am going to get married and I am worried now. Sometimes it pains inside my vagina . After marriage will it create problem will my husband will come to know about this will I have problem in my sex life or during my pregnancy. Please help me doctor..please send answer in this YYYY@YYYY .
Tue, 4 Dec 2012
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Hi,
Thanks for asking.
First of all, be POSITIVE and rest assured that you have not done anything wrong and unfortunately you were used to the sadistic desires of some antisocials.
I understand your concern of becoming habituated to sexual feelings by fingering. Masturbation is normal in both the sexes to some extent irrespective of the marital status and it will not affect your sex life and your husband can not know, unless you tell him.(Ofcourse, fingering is one of the ways of satisfying a woman in bed, suggested by sexologist's also).
But, as you have mentioned fingering causes pain inside vagina, the lining of the vagina may get inflammed and secondarily infected, affecting the hygiene of the female reproductive tract(Vagina, cervix and uterus etc.,) Because any local infection may ascend further and may adversely affect the fertility and sometimes the foetus too, when you conceive and deliver.
so, please keep in mind about the LOCAL HYGEINE of the GENITAL TRACT.
Also for overcoming the problem of habitual finger sex, I suggest,
1. Please do regular Physical exercise.
2. Engage yourself with some hobbies of your choice like Stamp collection etc.,
3. Divert your mind with some regular badminton or table tennis and other destressing activities
like 20 minutes of Pranayama or yoga
4. ALWAYS keep yourself engaged in the company of your friends
5. If you are not working, find a suitable job for you so that to divert your mind and it gives the financial freedom or security which itself boosts your morale.
take care you should do well.
regards,
Dr.K.Muthukumar MD
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Habituated To Fingering, Have Pain Inside Vagina, Getting Married. Will It Cause Problems In Future ?

Hi, Thanks for asking. First of all, be POSITIVE and rest assured that you have not done anything wrong and unfortunately you were used to the sadistic desires of some antisocials. I understand your concern of becoming habituated to sexual feelings by fingering. Masturbation is normal in both the sexes to some extent irrespective of the marital status and it will not affect your sex life and your husband can not know, unless you tell him.(Ofcourse, fingering is one of the ways of satisfying a woman in bed, suggested by sexologist s also). But, as you have mentioned fingering causes pain inside vagina, the lining of the vagina may get inflammed and secondarily infected, affecting the hygiene of the female reproductive tract(Vagina, cervix and uterus etc.,) Because any local infection may ascend further and may adversely affect the fertility and sometimes the foetus too, when you conceive and deliver. so, please keep in mind about the LOCAL HYGEINE of the GENITAL TRACT. Also for overcoming the problem of habitual finger sex, I suggest, 1. Please do regular Physical exercise. 2. Engage yourself with some hobbies of your choice like Stamp collection etc., 3. Divert your mind with some regular badminton or table tennis and other destressing activities like 20 minutes of Pranayama or yoga 4. ALWAYS keep yourself engaged in the company of your friends 5. If you are not working, find a suitable job for you so that to divert your mind and it gives the financial freedom or security which itself boosts your morale. take care you should do well. regards, Dr.K.Muthukumar MD