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Treatment may usually depends upon cause. common causes like Alzheimer's disease or infections or
spinal cord problems or
electrolyte imbalance etc. Until examination is done it is difficult to say what it is. Some tips are : Eat 20 to 30 grams of fiber per day. This can make stool more bulky and easier to control. Avoid caffeine. This may help prevent diarrhea. Drink several glasses of water each day. This can prevent
constipation. Methylcellulose can help make liquid stool more solid and easier to control. For people with a specific cause of diarrhea, such as
inflammatory bowel syndrome, other medications may also help.Begin a program of regularly contracting the muscles used to control urinary flow (Kegel exercises). This builds strength in the pelvic muscles and may help reduce bowel
incontinence. Schedule bowel movements at the same times each day. This can help prevent accidents in between. Surgery may be recommended for people whose bowel incontinence is not helped by noninvasive treatments. The types of surgery include:
1. sphincter surgery by stitching the anal muscles.
2.
sacral nerve stimulation.
3. sphinter cuff device.
4.
colostomy.
5. Radiofrquency anal sphincter remodeling.
6. injectable bio medical like silicon and collagen etc.
Please consult your physician/surgeon they will examine and treat you accordingly.
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