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How Can I Persuade My Friend Not To See Naked Men On Websites?

I have a friend who is on web sights that have man naked. I have told her this is not a safe thing to do and I can not be a part of this. She is married but still see these men. Her husband is a friend of my husband and I can not tell my husband because that would make him a part of this. I feel terrible not being able to talk with my husband about this, but I felt the less he knew would help him keep his friendship with his friend by not knowing
Mon, 9 Jun 2014
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You should definitely not tell your husband about what your friend has been up to as this will effect 4 people directly. Your friend sees naked men on the web for the sake of pleasure. She's not cheating on her husband.
Consider how embarrassing it would be for her if something which is so personal is being discussed among 3 people.

If you are feeling uncomfortable because you're not sharing it with your husband , you should try out this exercise:
Write down on a piece of paper about whatever you want to tell him from the beginning to the end. Tear and throw the paper away.

This will help you in letting your emotions out.
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How Can I Persuade My Friend Not To See Naked Men On Websites?

You should definitely not tell your husband about what your friend has been up to as this will effect 4 people directly. Your friend sees naked men on the web for the sake of pleasure. She s not cheating on her husband. Consider how embarrassing it would be for her if something which is so personal is being discussed among 3 people. If you are feeling uncomfortable because you re not sharing it with your husband , you should try out this exercise: Write down on a piece of paper about whatever you want to tell him from the beginning to the end. Tear and throw the paper away. This will help you in letting your emotions out.