Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Don t over read into it. Depression, disappointment and laziness are different things. The signs you are mentioning could simply be dissatisfaction coupled with laziness. I think you should talk to your friend and find out the reason. If your friend is not talking, then observation could be another option. Observe without any predisposition. Your friend could be in a simple adolescent state or in a role confusion of adult. Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.