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Sir I am a govt servant I am staying without my wife . After gap of 04 months ( go leave to home ) When I touch her or insert penis with one minute I feel I got ejaculated . I can not understand when I married in the year 2006 that I never ejaculated so fast and that time I after 45 minutes I ejaculated and sometimes it was difficulties for me to ejaculate but now with condom I feel ejaculation is lasting but when I keep sex without condom I feel going to ejaculate earlier
Fri, 5 Sep 2014
General & Family Physician, Dr. Nishad BN's Response
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.You should get rid off anxiety including performance anxiety and stress.You can do squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on condom that you told it helps.Or you can put a condom with anesthetic which all decrease your excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent getting premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants. SSRIs like Paroxetine or Dapoxetine are usually prescribed drugs.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.
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How Can Premature Ejaculation Be Treated?
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.You should get rid off anxiety including performance anxiety and stress.You can do squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on condom that you told it helps.Or you can put a condom with anesthetic which all decrease your excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent getting premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants. SSRIs like Paroxetine or Dapoxetine are usually prescribed drugs.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.