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How Can Self Masturbation Be Done Safely?

Ok this is a little crazy... Im in a situation where I can't get access to a dildo... I only see my partner once or twice a week... and we don't always have sex. I've never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse unless I go crazy on my clit with my hands while we're in a certain uncomfortable position for him.. not really comfortable or pleasing for either of us. We're trying to train my body to cum during intercourse, so I've stopped masturbating when I'm alone... except I REAAAAALLLY want to sometimes and need something to insert and use as a penal replacement when my man is not with me... how do I masturbate with a carrot when I can't get condoms? is it safe to do with a plastic bag?
Tue, 16 Apr 2019
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Hi,

It is a normal stance,
to understand the physiology of female body.
females don’t reach Orgasm during Vaginal Penetration,
Females has different/ many technique in masturbation

Manipulation of clitoris - which you already know,
As female has multiple spots for exploration help you for better results.

Manipulation of Labia Minora- labia strokes alone will give results as it is attached to clitoris.

Vibrates - Vibrators can be used instead of fingers, Using Vibrator over the clitoris or parts of Labia minora will give erotic sensation. The vibratory ring can be used with or without a condom. The ring may help in prolonging the erection. The vibrator will hit the clitoris region during sex when help in female orgasm.

Female do not reach Climax by inserting fingers or vibrators inside vagina, since walls of vagina are practically without nerves, although few sensory nerves close to entrance of vagina.
Inserting big objects inside vagina will have no use, since no erotic nerve supply inside vagina.

Deep vaginal penetration in men’s Fantasy, it is not sexual need for women Only occasional vaginal insertion that to only for few females will cause an erotic feeling. Few females prefer pressure on a whole vaginal region with rhythmic pressure which affects clitoris, labia minora and majora.

Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Regards,
Dr. S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist
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How Can Self Masturbation Be Done Safely?

Hi, It is a normal stance, to understand the physiology of female body. females don’t reach Orgasm during Vaginal Penetration, Females has different/ many technique in masturbation Manipulation of clitoris - which you already know, As female has multiple spots for exploration help you for better results. Manipulation of Labia Minora- labia strokes alone will give results as it is attached to clitoris. Vibrates - Vibrators can be used instead of fingers, Using Vibrator over the clitoris or parts of Labia minora will give erotic sensation. The vibratory ring can be used with or without a condom. The ring may help in prolonging the erection. The vibrator will hit the clitoris region during sex when help in female orgasm. Female do not reach Climax by inserting fingers or vibrators inside vagina, since walls of vagina are practically without nerves, although few sensory nerves close to entrance of vagina. Inserting big objects inside vagina will have no use, since no erotic nerve supply inside vagina. Deep vaginal penetration in men’s Fantasy, it is not sexual need for women Only occasional vaginal insertion that to only for few females will cause an erotic feeling. Few females prefer pressure on a whole vaginal region with rhythmic pressure which affects clitoris, labia minora and majora. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist