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How Can The Concentration Of The Husband Be Drawn Towards The Wife?

Hi, I am so sad and worried about my relationship with my husband. Because every day morning 5.20AM he gets up and goes down sits on the computer does something. So I just found out he watches porn...I told him 3years already doesn t go down, but he keeps doing it and hurts me too much. What I can do? Is it normal?
Mon, 14 Jul 2014
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Your spouse’s porn habit probably does not mean that he or she no longer finds you attractive. One of the most important things to remember about pornography use or any other infidelity is that this behavior is absolutely not a reflection on you. It is not caused by any shortcoming on your part, it is not your fault, and it has nothing to do with you, except for the fact that it hurts you. Your partner has an illness and has made some unhealthy choices, but you are okay.

Chances are that you did not marry the guy who has the best approach to unlock or decipher your sexual side when he wants it the most. Chances are that husbands have to wait for their wives to be in the mood, be rewarded with sex, or wait for a date night/birthday/anniversary. Many of the husbands think that their wives don’t make the SAME flirtatious efforts.

Try making some romantic efforts towards your partner and try to make him understand the ill effects of watching porn in uncontrollably. If the problem still persists, consult a psychologist.
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How Can The Concentration Of The Husband Be Drawn Towards The Wife?

Your spouse’s porn habit probably does not mean that he or she no longer finds you attractive. One of the most important things to remember about pornography use or any other infidelity is that this behavior is absolutely not a reflection on you. It is not caused by any shortcoming on your part, it is not your fault, and it has nothing to do with you, except for the fact that it hurts you. Your partner has an illness and has made some unhealthy choices, but you are okay. Chances are that you did not marry the guy who has the best approach to unlock or decipher your sexual side when he wants it the most. Chances are that husbands have to wait for their wives to be in the mood, be rewarded with sex, or wait for a date night/birthday/anniversary. Many of the husbands think that their wives don’t make the SAME flirtatious efforts. Try making some romantic efforts towards your partner and try to make him understand the ill effects of watching porn in uncontrollably. If the problem still persists, consult a psychologist.