I had a hysterectomy in the early 90 s, then had a prolapse of the bladder and bowel. Had a Cystocele and Rectocele early 2000 s. got a bladder sling along with it. They said no lifting. well in my life that is impossible, so now sometimes I cannot urinate unless I have a BM, I have to go bad but just dribbles. Wake up a lot at night feeling like I have to go ugently only to go a tiny bit, sometimes I cannot go at all. just have to sit there and wait, very painfull. Sometimes when I have a BM it is difficult until (it rounds a corner) then it comes out . painfull as well. leaking also.