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I started a new relationship a year ago with a man who is now 58 and he obviously had some issues because he was injecting himself to gain as erection. Unfortunately twice he ended up in out patience as it would not subside. Yes embarrassing and painful. Naturally he is not willing to use the drug again . He says he has no interest in sex and although we kiss and I am in love with him , I hate the thought that I will never experience a physical relationship again . I am 53 and probably know my time is limited too . How can I steer him to getting answers and what is available?
Hi. The sex has multiple factors which decide the outcome. Injections for erection is definitely a very bad choice as it has many attendant complications. You already have an intimacy and love for this man, which will help him more than any medicines. You can consult a sexologist or Urologist to get him checked and have a counseling session. Age is never a bar for healthy sexual relationship for either of the sexes( genders). so go in the right direction and may solve your problems. Time is also a good solution for many such problems.
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How Do I Get My Partner Interested In Sex?
Hi. The sex has multiple factors which decide the outcome. Injections for erection is definitely a very bad choice as it has many attendant complications. You already have an intimacy and love for this man, which will help him more than any medicines. You can consult a sexologist or Urologist to get him checked and have a counseling session. Age is never a bar for healthy sexual relationship for either of the sexes( genders). so go in the right direction and may solve your problems. Time is also a good solution for many such problems.