I experienced a tear in my vaginal wall a few months ago while having sex. I visited my ob/gyn a month after I realized it wasn't healing. They were not helpful at all. But afterwards I refrained from using tampons and being sexually active for a few weeks and it still hasn't healed. It got a little better, but when my boyfriend and I have sex it still hurts the first few minutes and then it adjusts! I don't know what to do! Or how long it will take to heal.