Hi. I just recently got married and was still a virgin. I have a very strong desire to have sex with my husband, but when he tries to penetrate, it feels like he is thrusting against a wall inside me. I have tried to relax, and fortunately my husband is very loving and patient with me. I have not experienced any sexual trauma previously, so I know that is not the reason for the tightness. Should we just be patient and keep trying, perhaps with some lubricant?