Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Family problems like this are definitely due to some misunderstanding, ego, lack of awareness, some external factors etc. The could should be able to understand each other well, at least tolerate each other with lot of tolerance. Family is not just two person. It is values, passion and love. Success comes only when these basic aspects are available between the couple. Instead of talking over phone, take your husband to a marriage counselor and that counselor should help you. Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some relationship psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.