Hi, I am sarthiya. I have problem with my sexual life. I married on february 2010. For your information, i never had sex before marriage. But my husband claiming im not virgin since i didnt get bleeding on the first day of intercourse. He also saying that my hole is not thight. I dont know how to explain to him. For sure, never had sex before with anyone. Im telling to hm its my physical body like that..but he is claiming m not virgin by telling my hole is not thight and no bleeding. He also telling my breast s not firm...its because im not virgin.Someone has sucked before. He s thnking like that. i dont know how to explain to hm anymore..please help me.