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How To Combat Premature Ejaculation?

i am male and i am 28 years old .My weight is 78 kg and my height is 5 feet and 9 inches and i am normal and healthy also.I am not having any disease.I am masterbating from the last 18 years without any problem.I masterbate 3-4 times a week and sometimes may be more then that.I like watching porn movies.While watching porn i get ejaculate even if i touch my penis for 5-10 seconds and normally when i masterbate i get ejaculted between 10-80 seconds.Why it is happening with me only. I asked my friends regarding this, some said they get ejaculated in 5 minutes and some said in 10 minutes, then what is wrong with me.I have a girlfriend also when i do sex with her,i get ejaculated even before insertion.This is very shameless for me and by chance if i get able to insert the penis then i cant do more then 10 seconds.Please tell me what should i do.I went to 2-3 doctors also, they take the good fees,but didn't prescribe any medicines,neither gave me any tests to be done,they asked me to do some kejal exercies.that i knowing before going to doctor.I don't know which doctor to visit.when i visit to some doctor they start giving me lectures,do like this ,first kiss her ,then touch her body,etc, i am not a fool i know what to do,,tehy are charging me for that that i know already.I dont want to become porn star, i just want to be normal,what i want is that i want to last for around 2-5 minutes after insertion that is normal and not more then that and neither i am expecting more then that.When i am having headche,doctors gives me medicine,,and i feel good and ok.Simalary i want some medicne for this issue.It is as simple.What should i do, please help me.I want to get rid from this disease.advice me which doctor should i visit in delhi,,like sex therpist,,,homepathy,,,sexiologist,,ayurveda...it is very shameless ..so please help me,,


My first question is:
While watching porn i get ejaculate even if i touch my penis for 5-10 seconds.When i do sex with my girlfriend i get cum within 10-15 seconds.It is not the story of my present day, it is happening with me all the time.I always cum within 10 -15 seconds whether i watch porn or do sex or do masterbation.

My second question:
When i start doing sex,my penis get erect at that time.but when i start kissing her,and touching her,for 2-3 minutes my penis gets lay down and it doesnt get erect,and some liquid type starts coming out regularly.While touching it gets erect but after that when i had to do the sex,, it gets down.

My third question is:
on the road i met some babaji, they gave me sheelajit, and said it will help you.But i am scared to take that,I dont know what to do.Please tell me should i take that or not.
Sat, 18 Jan 2014
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Hi. Thanks for an elucidate history. The problem is absolutely simple but with a worst ever sequel. Sex is all in the head , penis is just like a soldier. If you have the capacity to have a full erection, there is no wrong with the penis part it. Watching porn has over-sensitized your senses so much that even on touching you are getting an ejaculation as is when you are touching your girlfriend. Some liquid is again a good thing that your prostate is normal so no worry as this is just normal. for your third query - if it is shilajeet - it will not cause any harm, may help too as shilajeet is to increase the vitality not for increasing duration.
Solutions: Stop seeing porn for ever. Your girlfriend in fact help you to overcome this problem as females have better solutions far more than you can think off. In addition try a simple trick- Hold Ilaichee= green cardamon , in your mouth and chew slowly and lightly during all the acts, pre and during sex. It helped many. If this fails you may need an anxiolytic medicines for which you have to visit either a sexologist/ psychologist for these would be prescription drugs and you will not get them without a valid prescription.
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How To Combat Premature Ejaculation?

Hi. Thanks for an elucidate history. The problem is absolutely simple but with a worst ever sequel. Sex is all in the head , penis is just like a soldier. If you have the capacity to have a full erection, there is no wrong with the penis part it. Watching porn has over-sensitized your senses so much that even on touching you are getting an ejaculation as is when you are touching your girlfriend. Some liquid is again a good thing that your prostate is normal so no worry as this is just normal. for your third query - if it is shilajeet - it will not cause any harm, may help too as shilajeet is to increase the vitality not for increasing duration. Solutions: Stop seeing porn for ever. Your girlfriend in fact help you to overcome this problem as females have better solutions far more than you can think off. In addition try a simple trick- Hold Ilaichee= green cardamon , in your mouth and chew slowly and lightly during all the acts, pre and during sex. It helped many. If this fails you may need an anxiolytic medicines for which you have to visit either a sexologist/ psychologist for these would be prescription drugs and you will not get them without a valid prescription.