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How To Control Libido?
hi doctor iam 36 years old women married for 10 years, from my child hood im fond of sex have doen somany times before marriage after i got married my husbands love changed me i was good then after sometime i got into one relationship that shattered my husbands heart and after that he sent me to abudhabi for some time he lives in trichy i came to my sisters place in abudhabi and got a job here here also i did the same mistake somany times and he found that but he still loves me he came to abudhabi 2 months before but he never touches me for anything now i have a friend very good strong one he advices me daily and now im very good but sometimes i have feeling on him how do i control my sex feelings and be loyal to my husband
Mon, 15 Dec 2014
Hello,
For controlling libido you should have to control your mind first from sexually active all time. I had gone through your query and would like to advise you that you should try to divert your mind to some activity which you like and avoid sexual activity with others that could be helpful to you.
Other reason could be that as you described that you live alone without your partner so that its natural that when you cant get satisfaction sexually then you will attract towards others. So that you should meet your partner as per your need. That could be helpful.
Also, you should have to meet satisfaction while having intercourse with your partner that could even help you. For that, I would like to advise you that go for foreplay and oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre-cum, and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use the different position of sex. It may give you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
For controlling libido you should have to control your mind first from sexually active all time. I had gone through your query and would like to advise you that you should try to divert your mind to some activity which you like and avoid sexual activity with others that could be helpful to you.
Other reason could be that as you described that you live alone without your partner so that its natural that when you cant get satisfaction sexually then you will attract towards others. So that you should meet your partner as per your need. That could be helpful.
Also, you should have to meet satisfaction while having intercourse with your partner that could even help you. For that, I would like to advise you that go for foreplay and oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre-cum, and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use the different position of sex. It may give you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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